How To Find Romance
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I would ask this back…Do YOU know what you want?

Look at some of the answers I get to this simple question:

Do you want to be married?

• "I'm really not sure."
• "Well, not right away, but if something ended up there, I would be ok with it."
• "I kind of want to but if I met a nice man who didn't want to, that would be ok with me."
• "Not that important to me."
• "I never really thought about it."

Keeping you from making a clear decision on exactly what you want is on the Saboteur's A-List of Nasty Tricks To Keep You Single.  If you are not sure about what you want, you will get back a constant thread of "unsureness" and never truly relax.  A deep fear of being disappointed keeps you from making any clear decision.

How did I get so smart?  I lived for years compromising everything trying to protect myself from being disappointed.  Nothing worked.  When my first marriage ended, I made a decision.  I decided to find out why I felt so unsure about love.  Lots of people told me they loved me, but I never felt sure about it for myself.

Learning what it felt like to be out of alignment was a first step toward my own manifestation of my soul mate.  I was able to stop blaming the people who had hurt me and deal with the pain they were a part of.  It was life changing.  I felt lighter and lighter as I went along.  It was such a relief to stop thinking about all that drama and trauma.

If you have been indecisive about what you want in love.  Today is the day to change that.  Make a decision to want what you want.  Be honest with yourself and want the biggest and brightest future you can imagine.

If wanting your Secret Heart's Desire is too painful and makes you feel sad or frustrated, reach out and get some help.  The ache of a still broken heart is not a position of power when attracting New Love.

Decisions bring strength.  Your mind loves them because then it can go right to work creating the ideas you need to move you forward on your way to your future.  Change is possible and when you are feeling way out of alignment it is a sure call for a course correction.  Something is out of kilter or you wouldn't feel like that when you are holding your most cherished desire.

So does your Inner Being know what you want?  Of course.  And the really excellent news is that when you get what you really really want (Yes, that is what your Inner Being wants too) it feels better than you can imagine.  Do you have a decision facing you?  Be bold and make it. The reward is delicious!

Are you ready for a little Soul Mate Magic of your own?  Here's the First Step: http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and see how strong your Love Vibe is right now!

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