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One small window at the top of the tower let's her look out at the sea of possibility right outside, but heartbreak and disappointment from the past keeps her separate and out of the game. Like the Rapunzel in the fairy tale who had to let the poor guy climb up her hair (ouch!!) our modern day Rapunzel is afraid that the emotional pain and risk of letting a man get close is just not worth it. She stares longingly out the window at the handsome guys passing her by and daydreams about a future life she has no idea how to get. As years go by, the tower gets taller and more severe, making it harder and harder to see the men who could bring her the love she so desperately wants.
Could you be a Rapunzel? Check these symptoms and see if your recognize yourself: 1. Hasn't had a long term relationship in over 5 years. 2. Enjoys being home alone. 3. Has a closer relationship with her pet than she does with a man. 4. Turns down invitations. 5. Has a traumatizing breakup in the past that still stings. 6. Acutely lonely. 7. Is secretly terrified of change. Is this you? Well, Rapunzel, how long are you going to stay up there in that tower? Who holds the key to your future? Unlike the fairy tale, there is no wicked witch who has locked you in there. And, you don't need to let anyone climb up your hair to set you free. Just acknowledging that you have checked out and been out of commission for awhile will start to shift things for you automatically. Start by looking at your life from a new vantage point. Face how long it has been since you have been out in circulation and take an action step to change that. Check out meetup.com and find a group to join. There are groups for every interest imaginable…from photography to wine drinking to hiking. Volunteer at your area animal shelter and love on those lonely pups and kittens. Just do one thing out of your ordinary routine. Find a coach or mentor who can equip you to re-enter the dating scene. Above all, choose to commit to changing your vantage point. True Love is not a distant dream….it is closer than you think. Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and get your Soul Mate Success Score right now!
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“Why Don’t Men Want Me”
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Is it too late for Diana? Unless she does something to change her attitude, yes. Harsh? Maybe. Honest? Yes. Diana has put so much pressure on herself to manifest a husband and family that she broadcasts a desperate vibe that is turning every prospect away. She thinks she can put on a happy face and 'act as if' she is fine but she is not fooling anybody. What would I tell her if she asked me? I would remind her of the meaning of insanity….doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result each time. I would ask her a few important questions like these: 1. Did you have a boyfriend that broke your heart in high school? 2. Has anyone ever cheated on you? 3. Was your dad cruel or manipulative or absent? 4. Did a male teacher belittle you or humiliate you in public? 5. Have you been raped or beaten? If Diana answered yes to any of these questions I would tell her this: Those past experiences left an imprint on you that is here right now as strong as it ever was. Memories with painful emotions attached to them are controlling your every move when it comes to choosing the men you allow to get close to you. Find someone to help you release these painful imprints. Whether it is a pastor, a counselor, a coach or other mentor, don't try to do this alone. If your microwave is on the blink, you don't take a screwdriver to it, take it apart, rebuild it and put it back together, do you? Why do you think you can find your own problem, take yourself apart and then rebuild your heart by yourself? If you are REALLY serious about finding a soul mate and building a family, there is one thing you absolutely must do. You must do something, no make that everything, differently than you have so far. If marriage has eluded you, face the music and change course. Don't let the painful memories from the past stop you from finding True Love. Once you set a new course, get the marching orders from someone able to help you and then move forward….you will find what you are looking for. I promise.
Do you ever wonder if it is too late for you? Did you answer "yes" to any of those questions? If so, I would love to speak to you. Go to http://ResetYourLoveSetPoint.com and tell me your story. Once upon a time, you believed that True Love was possible, let's restore that dream.
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Jun
If this is you, grab a cup of coffee and read on, this is crucial info for you!
There is nothing more magical and true proof of the Law of Attraction than On Line Dating. Does that make you mad? Keep reading.
If you have only attracted creeps and losers on-line, there is a perfectly logical reason for that and it doesn't have anything to do with the creeps and losers. No matter how beautifully you write your profile, the energy underneath the words is what prospects are responding to. Wait… read what my star client Maria writes about her new Love Vibe.
Before we started to work together, the ratio of 7 women to 1 man on her beautiful island of Victoria, British Columbia just killed her dating life. She teased that all the men were either "Newly Wed or Nearly Dead" and the only men who responded to her profile were the "Nearly Dead". She was totally creeped out. Look what she says now: Hi Catherine I wanted to send you a quick note regarding our sessions. Before I
started working with you I was very discouraged about finding love. I
have been single for 15 years only dating every now and then. Since we
started our sessions I am having a complete attitude change, I believe
it is possible to find my soul mate! I feel so much better not only
about finding HIM but I also feel amazing about ME too. Catherine you put my world into perspective and that in itself is
priceless. I believe there is a wonderful future out there waiting for
the right moment to find me. Now i feel I'm ready to go after it. I have this inner excitement inside of me that I had lost for so many
years. It's nice to have ME back again, I really missed her! Ha ha Catherine you are a doll and you make a world of difference in people's
lives, don't ever stop doing what you are doing. You even got me back onto Internet dating, which before I met you I
wouldn't consider trying ever again. This time with my new vibrations
it is a lot different. It's exciting and new and it really does work!!!
Hugs to you, I cannot wait till the day I meet you in person. Love ya,
Maria Maria's first step was The Soul Mate Quiz. Once she felt her Love Vibe and realized how muffled it was by the heartbreaks from her past, she understood why she was attracting the wrong men. The Law of Attraction led her to my website and the rest is history. Even though she hasn't met "The One" yet, I know she is getting more and more irresistible to men who are perfect prospects for her. She is attracting single guys in her age group and having more fun than she thought possible….with on line dating! How about you? If you are single and not dating and fearful of on line relationships…it just might be because your Love Magnet is too weak to attract True Love. Take the first step and get your Soul Mate Success Score. http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out right now!
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Originally published on the PickV.com blog (a new dating site that matches people based on music, movies and book likes and dislikes), by Samantha Scholfield the weekly love/relationships contributor. Samantha is Dating tips, advice and reports from the dating front line from the author of the book "Screw Cupid: The Sassy Girl's Guide to Picking Up Hot Guys" Available everywhere books are sold www.screwcupidthebook.com How about you? Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and get your Soul Mate Success Score right now!
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Jun
Attract Your Soul Mate Now Radio Link Click Here: http://ht.ly/1SBDV How about you? Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and get your Soul Mate Success Score right now!
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Jun
Why Can’t I Find My Soul Mate?
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The disappointment I hear in the voices of the women who are lonely and looking for romance in their lives is haunting.
“Why do I keep attracting the jerks and losers?”
“All of the men in my age group are married or satisfied with being single.”
“What if I never meet the love of my life?”
Ouch.
There is a hidden key to finding the man of your dreams and believe it or not, it has nothing to do with your past lovers or the emotionally distant relationship you might have with your dad.
The key to finding a man who gets you and loves you is to fully recover from the hurts from the women in your past.
What you say?
"How can my relationships with girlfriends have anything to do with finding my soul mate?"
Let me tell you a story.
When Janna went to college, she felt really lucky. She hadn’t fit in with the cool kids in high school and was a loner. College was different though. She met people she could relate to and began to find friends.
Naïve and open, she began to trust these girls and let herself be known more and more deeply. It was fun to come home to the dorm and always find someone up, no matter what time it was, to share about dates, guys and guys.
These were really great friendship times and Janna flourished.
Then, out of the blue, Janna met a guy of her own. It was an instant crush. Every cell in her body vibrated when she thought about him. Body, mind and soul all completely captured by this wonderful man.
She fell hard and, lucky for her, so did he. Janna and Dan began hanging out together as often as they could. They didn’t really date, they just hung out. It was comfortable and fun and felt very right.
What happened next with her girlfriends blindsided her completely. Janna’s roommate, Kate, was going through a messy breakup with her longterm boyfriend at the time. Somehow, they saw Janna’s time spent with Dan as an abandonment of Kate.
As they made their stance more and more clear, Janna was faced with a difficult choice. Her girlfriends or…..her soul mate.
Of course she chose Dan. He was her whole world.
What a time it was. The chemistry was strong and steady. They got each other. It was so easy to be together and they couldn’t get enough of each other.
It was completely natural for them to spend more and more time together. And so they did.
Kate was going through a devastating time, there is no quarrel with that. But try as she might, Janna could not read the situation. Her love for Dan was all she wanted. She only knew one thing for sure and that was that she did not ever intend to hurt anyone.
The price was high though. In the not fully informed decision making of a teenage crowd, Janna was excised from the group.
At the time, it didn’t seem to matter. The hurt and disappointment was completely hidden by the overwhelming chemistry between Janna and Dan.
The loss of the friendships, the support, the smiles, the involvement the fun of girlfriendness was never addressed at the time.
When Janna and Dan broke up after a passionate, complicated and significant length of time, Janna was left not only without her soul mate and her girlfriends, she also had taken a huge hit in the area of trust. After all, she had picked those girls and her soul mate and those choices were filled with drama and trauma.
Unaware of the unexpressed disappointment still deep in her memory, Janna never trusted women again. Holding her heart closed from other girls, she could comfort herself knowing she couldn’t get hurt like that again.
Fast forward ten, twenty years or so. Janna now has had many women friends over the years but few that have sustained themselves.
She is lonely and, truth be told, desperate to meet a man to be with. She wants what she had with Dan. She wants to feel that excitement again. The wanting of it is steady and intense. "Where is he?" She cries into her pillow at night. "Why can’t I meet him?"
Freeze Frame:
The betrayal of women, by women, is the single most injurious of emotional wounding. Self protective postures and behaviors keep women at arms length from each other.
Ask yourself, how many women do I trust completely?
Unless you are very different than most, you come up with a very low number.
What in the world does all this have to do with your invisible soul mate?
Everything.
When you are drawn into a relationship with an unconscious (which by its nature is naïve and open, bless its heart) desire to fulfill both a girlfriend's and a boyfriend's roles, the result is always devastating. Whether it ends sooner or later, the results are the same. The relationship is lopsided and, without help, pretty doomed.
Not many men are going to be attracted (in the invisible but oh so real world of energetic signals.)to you with this signal. Men run from neediness every time. They can’t be everything to you and you wouldn’t want a man who thought that he could. Trust me.
They read it with their Man Radar.
Yuck, you say, I don’t want to radiate that!
Are you ready to start doing things differently?
How serious are you about finding your soul mate?
Take an inventory and see how many of your past female friendships ended badly. Check in with your heart to see if past betrayal still hurts. You are holding yourself back in your search for your soul mate because the pain of a broken heart seems worse than being alone.
Learning to open your heart again toward women will put you on the fast track to receiving the man the Universe has been trying to bring to you.
Before you say that you don’t have any issues with those mean girls, ask yourself this question:
Why am I still single?
How about you? Do you wonder what your chances are for Soul Mate Success? http://TakeTheSoulMateQuiz.com and find out right now!
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